Meet new people

Meet new people online. Start from what you share.

Add your languages and interests, filter by country and reputation, and start a conversation when you both agree to it.

Meet new people online

Meeting people online works best when you start from something you share. theChatStage lets you look for people by interest, language and country, read a short profile, and start a conversation when both of you are ready. It is free, it runs in the browser, and you must be at least 16.

Find people by interests, languages and countries

On your profile you add the languages you speak, your interests and a short bio. Discover then lets you filter the people who are online: by country, language, age range, gender and reputation, and by shared interests. Looking for someone to practise Spanish with, or someone who also likes climbing? Filter for it and you see only the people who fit.

The person on the other side sees your profile too, so a good bio and honest interests make the first message easier for everybody.

Start a conversation

Press Chat on a person who is online and they get a request. If they accept, you are in a private chat. If they are busy, you can join their queue. If they are offline, you can schedule a chat and you are told when they are back. You can also send a direct message request. You get to send one message, and the other person can reply or decline, so nobody is flooded with messages they never asked for.

Reputation helps you pick

After conversations, people rate each other anonymously on politeness, thoughtfulness, how easy they were to talk to, honesty and open-mindedness. Once someone has talked or debated with at least three different people, their reputation shows on their profile, and you can filter for people with a good one. A leaderboard shows who is rated highest.

Beyond small talk

If you would rather meet people through ideas than through small talk, try a debate. Pick a topic and a side and you are matched with someone who holds the other view. Many good conversations begin with a disagreement that stayed polite.

What other people see on your profile

A profile shows your display name, an optional photo, your age, gender, country, the languages you speak, your interests, a short bio and, once you have enough ratings, your reputation. Your email address is never shown. A photo is optional, and nobody has to turn on a camera to talk to you.

Treat the bio as a conversation starter. One concrete sentence about what you like, or what you want to talk about, gives the other person something to answer. People with an empty profile get fewer replies, because nobody knows what to say to them.

Languages: practise, teach or just talk

Language learners use theChatStage to find people who speak the language they are learning. Add the languages you speak, then filter Discover for the language you want to practise. Say in your first message what you are doing, for example that you are learning Spanish and would like to chat for ten minutes in simple sentences. Most people are glad to help when they know what you want.

The interface is in English, but conversations can be in any language the two of you share.

A first message that gets an answer

Skip a bare hello. Mention something from their profile, ask one open question, and keep it short. If they do not answer, move on; people are busy, and a request that is not accepted costs you nothing. If they do answer, ask a follow-up about what they said rather than about yourself.

Rules, reporting and age bands

Messages are not screened before delivery. You can report any person or message with the flag icon and block anyone you do not want to hear from. A person on our team reviews reports, and serious violations lead to suspension or a permanent ban. People under 18 meet only people under 18, and adults meet only adults.

Your email address is never shown to other people. They see your display name, photo, age, gender, country, languages, interests and bio, so share only what you are comfortable with.

  • Use a display name, not your full name.
  • Meet in the app first; keep personal contact details to yourself until you trust the person.
  • Report and block without apologising.

Common questions

Is it free to meet people here?

Yes. Accounts, chats and debates are free and there are no ads.

Can I find people who speak my language?

Yes. Add the languages you speak to your profile and filter Discover by language. You can chat in any language you share. The interface is in English.

Do I have to show my face?

No. A profile photo is optional and there is no video.

How old do I have to be?

At least 16. People under 18 only meet people under 18.

Can I use it to practise a language?

Yes. Add the languages you speak, filter Discover for the one you want to practise and say in your first message what you are doing. Conversations can be in any language you share, and the interface is in English.

Does it work on my phone?

Yes. It runs in the browser on phones, tablets and computers, and iPhone and Android apps are being prepared.

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